Asian & Pacific Islander
Family Pride
"In API Homes, All Children Are Welcome"

6th Annual Family Presentation Banquet
Saturday, May 30, 2009

5:00 - 9:00 PM

Pre-Program Activities: 4:30-5:30 pm Family Circle Gathering of Past & Present Honorees.

Hotel Whitcomb 1231 Market Street, San Francisco, CA

Map Held in the ballroom of SF's historic hotel located at the corner of Market and 8th Street. Parking is on 8th Street is behind the hotel. BART Civic Center Station is infront of the hotel. Handicap access.

RSVP Below
2009 Honorees:

Beilin Zia honored by Helen Zia
Panyacosit Family honored by Tawal Panyacosit
Lok Family honored by Brent Lok
Rev. Dr. Jeffrey Kuan honored by NRJ
Rev. John Oda honored by GRACE

Dear Friends,

In Asian & Pacific Islander cultures, family belonging and social acceptance are very important. This makes it difficult for many API GLBTs to tell their family, because the stigma of homosexuality often brings shame and rejection. When API GLBTs "come out," many parents (and family members) have conflicted feelings, torn between love of child and fear of judgment from peers and other family members. Sadly, API GLBTs often become isolated and are deprived of the support and love of their families.

But there are examples where the opposite happens; where love and loyalty overcome shame and fear. Many API GLBTs have the open love, acceptance, and support of their parents, siblings and relatives. These "family coming out" struggles and successes are private ones, kept close to hearts and homes.

Times are changing. Public demonstrations challenge institutionalized homophobia and confirm the power of family love and loyalty that is transforming our homes and will ultimately transform our society. API Family Pride is dedicated to continue the opportunity for API GLBT people to publicly acknowledge and celebrate their personal family struggles with our Family Honor Roll. It is a scroll with the names of parents, siblings, relatives and friends who overcame the shame of homophobic society to love and accept their API GLBT children. Their example is important to acknowledge. Their stories are an inspiration to us all, but most especially to young API GLBT people who are just coming out.

We invite API GLBT children to submit the names of those who accepted and supported you to be placed on the parents, siblings, relatives and friends. We will put them on our Family Honor Roll. Then come with your honorees and family and friends to acknowledge their courage at our Family Presentation Banquet.

Host Committee, API-FP Presentation Banquet

*Nomination Form

To download and print a copy of the Invitation & RSVP form: click below

Tickets can be reserved and purchase online or via U.S. postal mail. Please send in your RSVP and payments to reserve you seats.

U.S. Postal Mail - Please make checks payable to "API Family Pride" Mail to API Family Pride, PO Box 473, Fremont, CA 94537

Include your name, address, phone and names of guest attending.

BANQUET TICKETS:

Adults $45
Children 5-10 yrs. $20

Children < 5yrs. Free

ONLINE TICKETS & DONATONS - by Credit Card

Press "Make a Donation" button below.

Number # of_____ tickets x $45/$20 per ticket.

Enter Total amount.

 

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Please email Names of Guests to: info@apifamilypride.org

No tickets will be sent prior to the event; all guest names will be held at the door. All payments are non-refundable after May 8, 2009

Contact: 510-818-0887

 

Thank You's

EVENT SPONSORS:

Asian Americans for Community Involvement - www.aaci.org

AIDS Project East Bay - www.apeb.org

San Jose State University LGBT Center

 

DONORS:

East Bay Community Foundations - www.ebcf.org

Horizons Foundation - www.horizonsfoundation.org

Get Screened Oakland - www.getscreenedoakland.org

 

SPONSORSHIP LEVEL:

Banyan... 10 event tickets, listing > $1000 +
Teak......... 6 event tickets, listing > $800
Narra........ 4 event tickets, listing > $500
Katsura..... 2 event tickets, listing > $250

Bamboo Donor....1 event ticket, listing > $100

SPONSORSHIP LEVELS

Banyan Sponsor - Lead recognition in event program, website & souvenir booklet.

Teak Sponsor - Recognition in event program and souvenir booklet.

Narra Sponsor - Recognition in event program & souvenir booklet.

Katsura, Bamboo Sponsor - Listing in event program.

API-FP Family Honor Roll RECOGNITION PROCESS

Since 2004, Asian & Pacific Islander (A&PI) Family Pride has organized its annual Family Presentation Banquet to honor persons who have supported A&PI lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) persons throughout their journey of self-discovery and coming out. The annual Family Presentation Banquet has honored over 60 mothers, fathers, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins, grandparents, and numerous other accepting family members who have faced deep-rooted homophobia in order to love and accept their LGBT relatives. The Banquet is an opportunity to honor this private courage of public support.
We invite Asian & Pacific Islander LGBT individuals to nominate these brave and accepting family members to honor at the 2009 A&PI Family Pride Banquet.

2009 Family Presentation Banquet Honoree Nomination Process

Who may nominate?
- Any LGBT Asian or Pacific Islander, or any organization with a constituency that includes Asian or Pacific Islander LGBTs.
Who may be honored?
- Any person or organization who in the eyes of the nominator, has provided support throughout an A&PI LGBT individual’s journey of self-discovery and coming out. They may be living or deceased and may be of any race or ethnicity.

How to honor:
Step 1: Provide your name, address, email, telephone and other contact information.
Step 2: Provide the name and relation of the person or organization you are nominating for recognition.
Step 3: Provide a written summary of 100 words maximum describing the love, support and acceptance the honored person(s) or organization have provided throughout your journey of self-discovery as an A&PI LGBT individual. Include a brief bio of the person(s) or description of the organization being honored.
Step 4: Provide one (1) photograph suitable for publication of the person(s) being nominated; a high resolution digital photo is preferred.
Step 5: Send the information to: API-FP, P.O. Box 473, Fremont, CA 94537 –or– email to belinda@apifamilypride.org.

Nomination Deadline:
- The written summary and photograph must be received no later than April 28, 2009.
Next Steps:You will be notified via telephone or email by April 30, 2009 if your nomination has been accepted. You will be provided two (2) complimentary tickets for yourself and your honoree to attend the annual Family Pride Banquet being held Saturday evening, May 30, 2009 at Hotel Whitcomb in San Francisco, CA. Any additional honorees must purchase banquet tickets in order to attend. You must be present at the Family Presentation Banquet and in the case that your honoree cannot attend, you may invite someone else to accept the award in their honor.

NOTE: Unless otherwise requested, it is understood that by submission, the names & stories of the honorees will be used in future A&PI-Family Pride printed and internet publications.

Nomination Procedure Form < click to Download < Due April 28.